Today,its exactly my one-month remaining in Phoenix,as I am leaving for Atlanta on April 28th.Going through the feelings of being gloomy and excited at the same time,for my next and last round in the US.However,the excitement is not as much as it is the sense of being worried.The reason for getting worried is going to a new place,and living for 45 days alone.This will be the first time during my stay in the US,that I will be living alone.
I remember ,when I left Davis,CA for Phoenix ,then I was quite apprehensive about my coming and living in Phoenix for a long time,as by the time I was leaving Davis,that dormitory was a home for me,if not a proper one.It was sad though to say good-bye to the Humphrey Fellows in Davis,I spent my one month and a half with.I didn’t realize that time that how difficult it would be to say good-bye not to the fellows, i would have spent nine months with,but also the new friends I have made during my time in Phoenix.
I couldn’t develop the sense of being-at-home in Phoenix until October,and I remember,Dr.Bill kept saying that you all one day will feel about Phoenix as your home.Thats exactly what happened to me.Sometimes,I look at myself and ponder,”Is it me,who has never left home ,and now I see The Met Apartments my home.”Actually this happened with me.I knew telling it to my room-mate Khara,who was also surprised to hear this.As she is the only one who knows that how much connected I am to my family,as she hears everyday my conversation loudly with them on Skype.I think ,its been hardly three or four times,that I ever missed talking to my family on Skype,to which Khara is witness.
When I was leaving Pakistan on June 13th,there were tears in my eyes to leave my family,as I have never been out of my country nor away from my family ,and I was leaving them for a year.But,now as I am leaving Phoenix in April,it will be more difficult for me to say good-bye to all my friends,whom I never know will I see in my life.My fellows,Khara,Dr.Bill,Kristi,Brian,Chelsea,Gardenia,Sandi and my Church people,and all other friends ;all these people have given me so much love that ,I don’t know,how I will say good-bye.How can I ever forget anyone of them. Sandi,who will always live with me-when I go to church in Pakistan-as she is the one who has been picking and dropping me on every Sunday since September 2011.Kristi’s parents hospitality and her brother’s flying us(Me,Mona and Taati) are all unforgettable experiences.
I will never forget the first Sunday in Phoenix,when me and Taati (my friend from Namibia) started to walk to search for a church.It was such a scorching heat,that by the time after 45-minutes walk ,we reached the church,we were about to faint.We were de-hydrated,as the water in our bottles were finished.It was the first-ever-adventure of me and Taati.I am thankful to God that,He knows our needs,for that he provided me with the friendship of Taati,whose faith and relationship with God,has always strengthened mine.I am so blessed that even after coming to the US,when I would be leaving,it would be full of spiritual experience and God’s love,that I came with.We always share our life’s testimonies with each other,and I miss that part forever.At the same time,I am so happy that we are friends,and we can talk to each other on Skype.
Some places,will always make me nostalgic,whenever I will think of them in Pakistan.Arizona Mills,Walmart,Target,Dollar Tree and off course my favorite Ross.The way all these stores are interlinked and on one path will always make me miss them.I wish we would have stores like these in Pakistan.There are so many other stores,which I don’t know names of,will be greatly missed.
When I went to spend Christmas vacations with my brother and his family,I remember ,how happy ,I was when he was seeing me off on Ontario Airport.I told him that I was going to home.Thats true,whenever,I was away from Phoenix,I wanted to come here after spending some days away from here.The Met Apartments,has been the wonderful experience.For a person like me,who has never lived away from family,coming and living here,was very easy for me.
The credit of my feeling about Phoenix as a home goes to many friends,I have made here.The Humphrey fellows all live in the apartments,which make it more like a home.I know that,I can easily go to any of my fellows,be it any matter.We all have spent nine months just like a family,have been together on every occasion,where we were always in the lime light.We were all always felt very special,whenever it was the presentation or Wednesday Excursions.I will never forget all this,they are all well imprinted in my memories.
All I know that ,I don’t know if I can ever see any of these people ,I have met here.Even though,I would ever come back ,and visit Phoenix,everything would be here but the time and the people associated with it.